Good dating practices

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Gold Country Singles wants you to feel comfortable and remind you it's okay to bring a buddy who's single to our events.  You and your friends can watch out for one another as you socialize and meet new people.  We want everyone to feel comfortable and safe as we experience new places and meet new singles in public venues around the Gold Country.

When you make plans with someone or to met at our events, always tell a trusted friend or family member where you're going. You might even consider giving them access to your location via iOS or an app like Find My Friends.  It's easy to text as you proceed giving an update of your location to allow everyone to be reassured of your progress and that you made it safely home.

On a similar note, it's best to provide your own transportation to the date, even if it's just taking a rideshare. While it may seem chivalrous when your date offers to pick you up, or take you home, you'll feel more in control if you have your own transportation, plus you can leave on your terms if things go south.

Many people like to grab a drink when they date, but if you do decide to go to the bar, take care to stay sober. You need to be able to get yourself home safely, and you put yourself at risk when intoxicated.  Know your limits, and stick to them!  When in doubt, ask for a soft drink or coffee instead.  It's okay to be sober when dating at our events.

Dating scams are genuine, and they're on the rise. According to USA Today, people of all ages and demographics are being targeted by bad actors. Complaints of "romance scams" have jumped significantly in the past few years,

To keep yourself safe from scams, don't give out personal information to potential dates and NEVER ENTERTAIN REQUESTS FOR MONEY!

Don't be afraid to bow out if you feel uncomfortable at any point during a date or even before it.  You're in no way obligated to meet with someone if you feel awkward or threatened.  Safe dating should be your first priority!  Let us know of  unwanted advances during our events so we can resolve the issue.  A safe dating environment is what we strive for, you and your input is vital to our success.